I believe when faced with a break up, people are not upset about losing the person they think they love. They're only afraid of losing their routine. When you lose your routine and it wasn't you that made the change, you then fear not being in control. They're not upset about never getting another kiss or cuddle session. They're only upset about how their life is going to be changed.
Case in point: when you lose your job, you will be hurt, upset, and feel unwanted and uneeded. The truth is, you're only pissed that your routine was changed and it wasn't you that forced it to variate. You might also really like your job. But the job doesn't really like you. You've just lost control over the job.
Think about it this way. How upset are you when YOU break up with some one? Me? personally, not very. This is because I am in control. I am the alpha and the omega in the situation. If the situation is reversed, however, I feel as if Im lost my domination in the ordeal. It's very human to fear the inevetable routine change.
just remember,
We all fear not being in control.
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It's funny how I stumbled across this. I recently...well, maybe not so recently broke up with my ex-boyfriend. I was the dumpee. Anyway, I think you made a very valid point. I think I would have felt differently if I were the one who initiated it. And it is more about the feeling of loss and routine change. My first thought were,'what am I going to do on the weekend now that I'm not with this person anymore?' Of course there is the feeling of loss and etc, but I definitely think it's harder when you loose that control.
That's just the way I look at it. =)
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