I want you to think very hard about what that statement means to you. It could mean several different things to many different people. My personal take on it is, most people to not feel like terrible human beings, justify sleeping with many people by saying they were "with" that person while they were fucking. This is a great way to sleep with over 10 people a year but, also saying that you're not a slut because you were monogamous and only sleeping with that one person.
News flash: You're still a whore.
If you're dating some one and only sleeping with that one person, congratulations. Monogomy doesn't count if you fuck one person at a time every other week. This is what we call being a cum dumpster in my circle of friends.
Been married 5 times? been divorced 5 times and said the dreaded "I love you" to over 10 people in your life and actually feel like you meant it?
News Flash: You're an even bigger whore then the girl who fucks 5 different dudes a week with no strings attached. Atleast she doesn't try to justify it by saying "oh, I was with them so it's alright." It's all just a huge facade. Something that people can see at face value and dismiss in a moment as acceptable behavior
No. It's not alright. You lead people on and are manipulitive with peoples perception and thoughts. I'd rather have a women just use me for sex. Tell me straight up that she's just gonna fuck me and move on in a couple weeks. I'd respect that.
To wrap this one all up ... this saying could mean a lot of various things to many people.
To me, it just means we're all whores. Just in unrelated, but corresponding ways.
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Bazuki,
I had no idea you were such a good writer, or I was such a whore.
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I see where you are coming from, but I certainly don't agree that being monogamous with a handful (or even 10) partners in your life makes you a whore. You, on the other hand seem incapable of monogamy (not to mention love), and definitely seem to fit the criteria of one. I think our generation's tendency toward "serial monogamy," as you so accurately put it, is simply a result of our culture. We are inundated with choices, experiences, and technologies, so is it any surprise we change the channel, our careers, and who we fuck more than we did 40 years ago? Between moves, work, and travelling I bet I've already met 10 times the men (or possible partners) that my grandmother did at my age. I have a healthy sex life, whether I'm single or in a relationship, and I really grateful that I'm not considered a spinster at 27 for not having a drunk husband and 4 toddlers. Divorce rates are up, unhappy marriage rates are down, but that doesn't make us all a bunch of cum dumpsters!!
I don't have a problem with whores, monogamy, or polygamy (unless we're talking Yearning for Zion styles) but I think you're kidding yourself if you think they are synonymous.
I am such a whore. Baz can you help me?
Hi there, I'm a serial monogamist. Not through choice or because I'm a slut or cum dumpster as you put it. You obviously don't understand the psychological background associated with some serial monogamists. I only recently discovered this is my problem. I didn't realize that deep down inside I am a perfectionist, meaning that I am satisfied for a while and then I am always looking for something more. I get bored easily. But I'm not a slut. I've been in a commited relationship since I was 14. First relationship was for 2 years, I had a few bf's in the 6 mos after that and then I met my HS sweetheart, we dated for 3 years and even thought we would get married. That soon ended after our first year of college. I moved on quickly to my ex husband with whom I spent 8 years with. And after my divorce I moved on to the relationship I'm in now. As you can see, not a whore, just not sure what I wanted. I only just discovered that I have a problem. Instead of being called sluts and cum dumpsters maybe you should try to see things from our perspective - a lot of it is underlying psychological problems we don't even realize - my situation, my father never wanted to be in my life and nothing was ever good enough for my mom. This has effected me in my adult life, but at least I'm strong enough to recognize it and do something about it. That, my friend, should be celebrated. Instead you think you understand what we are going through and typecast us as sluts and cum dumpsters - how about a little compassion and understanding. How about a big round of applause for those of us that recognize it and want to change?
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